Dating Tips about Body Language

September 30, 2010 – There is a lot about dating that is instinctual, and familiarizing yourself with this aspect can get you some great results.  It’s not always about what you say as much as it is how you say it and in what context.  And sometimes deeper meaning can be found in simple gestures or movements.  Body language is an integral part of the dating process as it ultimately is a language of its own.  Some women are experts at this, while others are rather clueless in the application of body language techniques.  The good news is that being an expert on body language isn’t absolutely necessary for your dating life.  It just helps to have an added advantage so that you can tell someone something without having to actually say it.  Here are some dating tips regarding body language.

1.  You can do a lot of talking with your eyes, and this is one of the features that a potential partner will notice first.  While you never want to stare at someone directly, you can give casual glances to indicate interest.  From there, if the object of your attention is interested he will meet sure days and try to hold the contact.  Knowing how to handle your eyes also comes in handy to indicate that you might not be interested.  For example, if a man is trying to get your attention all you have to do is politely look away and never turn back to show that you aren’t interested.

2.  One thing that helps with body language is feeling that you look good as well.  When you are confident you have a tendency to stand straighter and this can go a long way in conveying that you have confidence.  You should always try to avoid slouching because men have a way of picking up on that feature.  You might attract the wrong type of guy who is looking for someone without much confidence.

3.  If you’re interested in a guy and you have engaged in conversation then there is a lot you can do with your hands to indicate interest.  You can gently brush his arm or place your hand close to his.  Also keep your posture open and have your hands un-clenched.  If you’re a person who tends to talk with your hands, then you might want to slow things down so that your hands don’t get in the way.

4.  Watch for the phenomenon of “mirroring” which happens when two people have a high level of interest with each other.  It will also happen because you are comfortable with the person you are talking to.  Win the chemistry is right you may find yourselves mimicking each other almost as if several love spells have been placed over you.  But don’t worry it’s not magic, it simply due to the fact that you have found a good connection.

 

 

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